I wonder why someone who is older and more experience than me still doing such a childish matter. She blames others when something goes wrong? Why she must blame the innocent one?
Why don't she think that the one who did the fault have to responsible for it and not blame it on others?It seems like she is looking excuses for the one who did fault. And the one who did the fault will never improve because they always have excuses for the fault they did. I wonder why there is so many people in this world must relate their fault to the innocent one? Is it this will make them feel better? Why they are still not mature to differentiate good and bad , right and wrong? Why they can have such an irrational thinking? Is it something wrong with our education system and make them have this kind of irrational thinking?
Another irrational judgement from the same person. She say that a girl might be a playgirl and the girl might not serious in her relationship if she has two bf before..swt..why say like that? What makes her think like that? Don't you think it's not logical at all??I really don't know what to say...Seriously, so curious why they have such thinking..
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I think that is logical thinking. Have you heard the phrase: "Learn from the mistake?" A person keeping making the same mistake means he/she not learning from their previous mistake. And one thing why they don't learn from mistake is because they never take it seriously on what they did or maybe they blame others on the mistake too. So, before you blame on ppl's judgements on you, pls look at urself first. cheers~
both party have to put effort in one relationship.so outsider should not judge it...if you put yourself in my shoes,you will know that you are the same as me.It's unfair for you to judge it when u are not involve in it.well.Glad that u know that we have to look at ourselves before we judge others. So, u should also look at yourself before u jugde others especially u are not INVOLVE in it. thanks.
Well, of course i don't know your situation. Sometime, ppl say love is involve both party. But ppl never realize they keep thinking on their own benefits.They value love with how much time or money that person can spend on them.They got it, they thought this is what so call LOVE. An adult can see through all this because they have learn so much in life than u can imagine. Hence, you can't judge them without put yourself in their shoes too.cheers~
所谓，旁观者清。
although that she don't have the right to say so,
but still look at the situation
if you don't like it?
ignore it.
as easy as that.
maybe she have a bad experience before
although i don't know much about the situation
but.
you take care of yourself
i'm saying this in the position of a friend.
just cheering you up.
well.nvm. it' ok...everything will be fine.
Reply->Lovable J
Hi,you are caring ex-boy fren of tis little emo kid... :)
But sometimes, love will made ppl blind...after you leave the circle, u wil see clearly...dun you think so?
below is your view after brake up wt tis ex-gal (interesting)
taken up frm ex-Bf bloghttp://eternityj.blogspot.com/,(copy & paste, never add things...)
1)'my mom doesn't like her attitude, yeah i know my mom don't like her attitude but at least when i ask her to act, if she willing to act polite, my mom will not hate her.' (ACT polite, kind of stupid things?!)
2)she told me that he have 7 cars at his house (his hs selling car?)
3)i usually walk with her for meals and now that guy fetchs her for stuffs so well that makes me thinks that she's with him due to cars and the gaming part (to Allisson, mayb u said stranger never understand ur situation, but tis sentence is made by ur ex-boy, dun u think interesting?)
4)i still thinks that she and him together due to revenge against me for dumping her in the first place.
(ur ex boy fren really understand you~)
Lovable J, u did the successful things in ur life is broke up wt tis gal! wear ur spec n continue taking care abt tis emo gal! Good luck~
if you think what you see is true then that's it...i dun need to declare anything to anyone as long as i am right and Jesus will know that i did nothing wrong...and pls dun insult me by saying that i be with him is because of his car!!!noone will be so so stupid fall for someone for the sake of his car!!! at least i m better than u..when i writing all these post and dropping comment with my real identity...wat about you? u dun even dare to show ur true identity when u drop comment for me..why hide yourself? is it so fun to jugde others anonymously? btw..i will choose to forgive you....
to senior,
i don't remember saying that Alisson is my ex...
This is just about two ppl..that me and her...other people PLS dun invole..You guys doesnt help me..but just force me into a death end..you know what will a people do when they are in a death end..i also dun noe..and i hope i wont know it..
Dear anonymous and senior..
i noe who you are..
you noe i arent stupid..
i noe wat u guys thinking and worry about..
and i very clear wat am i doing..
i am ady 19..not 9..
dont you think it is a time for me to make decision instead of everything juz listen to mom and dad..i am not saying that they are wrong..yes they are experienced..
but they are not in the situation..they dont know what is goin on...juz let it be ok?
everything will be ok...
and pls dun drop coment in her blog anymore ok?i beg u ok?pls..
You guys are KILLING me instead of HELPING me..
if love me, pls..let me make my own decision...
i hope this is the last comment exist in this post...
got any problem..juz come to me..
you noe where and how to find me..
thank you..
if we dunno the identity of u, we oso dun want to waste our time to drop comment on you...God bless U...
hmm...
wat i can say is...
just let ken to tink so solution to let his parent get thrugh to u..
and as outsider...
we cant talk much...
coz these will make them more confusing...
let both of u cool down...
and tink a beter solution...
and nth can be cheat forever...
just make it in fact...
To Ken,
i know how it feels when someone is talking about your girl friend
but at least they are showing it
not that i support them
it's better than back stabbing her instead,
couldn't you agree so?
one important thing to a successful relationship
is to trust your lover
is that simple
just listen what others have to say
it don't hurt to listen right?
if it's useless then ignore it.
if you can't
which also states that you can't handle bigger guns.
i want you to take good care of her
if she disturbs me again complaining about her problems.
you will not be forgiven.
it's YOUR duty to care about your girlfriend and cares for her
not OUTSIDER like me to be her ears.
get it?
i'm not here to argue with you
just letting you to know.
and do not ever ignore and argue with your parents
they brought you to this world
they spend everything, time, money on you.
as you said
19 years.
are you going to ignore them?
argue with them?
just tell them politely how you feel for Alisson,
make them understand
if this arguments continues,
i know it will cause you to have some family problem.
make them trust you.
people with love will not choose between family and lover
if they can choose,
sooner or later the option that he/she choosed will be given up as well.
it's not hard to understand.
just give some time each other.
看到一群乳臭未干的小孩在玩感情纠纷。。
小孩们啊，
如果你还记得当初你父母千辛万苦千里迢迢送你远离家乡来UTAR的目的的话，
如果你还真的记得那个目的的话，请继续专心地追寻那个目的。
不是每个人没有一个伴来谈情说爱就活不下去的。
人生路还很长。。
既然现在有幸呆在学府里，
为什么不好好享受大学一大群朋友一起生活的乐趣，而要把自己捆绑着呢？
爱，需要坚守承诺，你们担得起了吗？
有能力了吗？
最后，希望你们还记得来UTAR的目的吧。
GoOD LuCK ..
Hope to see U all in graduation ceremony one day...
=)
to 聘雇赔钱:
yup...
our dream never get yet...
try more harder to get it...
remain our goal...
remain our style...
聘雇赔钱,
你如果当这是小孩子的事那就别理了
反正多你一个不算多，
少一个也不少。
爱情有分年龄吗？
你所说的都是常识呀。
他们都是个个有本领的人。
放心吧！
这闲事就算了吧！
我猜呀！
你也不想被别人认为你正在欺负小孩子吧！
hmm...
everyone have their own opinion...
and we r outsider...
we could not judge it correctly through these blog...
i tink they will settle their own stuff...
amen...
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